Feeling Pregnant

I missed church today. I am still just feeling worn out. Pregnancy gets harder the older you get I think. I had a crazy week which started out with me passing out at work. I am trying to take better care of myself. I have 2 tests for school this week and I have been procrastenating lately. Ha, that is what I am doing now. I wish that I could just hurry and get them done real quick then I won't have to worry about it. I really want to start getting the baby's room painted and decorated. I am painting it pink. The crib set I bought is pink and brown and is really cute. It is so much fun to buy pink stuff for a change. I think she will be dressed in pink everyday. I don't want her to be mistaken for a boy. I hate that, when people say what a cute boy and the girl is dressed in flowers or something girly. If you don't know for sure if the baby is a girl or boy, you don't say anything. You just say what a cute baby. At least that is what I do. I just gave all my baby boy clothes to my sister in law who is having a boy in a couple weeks so I hope my baby doesn't come out a boy.

Finding Balance in Our Busy Life

This was posted by my favorite blogger Roni. She is so inspirational to me. I am going to print the list and try to live by it and hopefully it will make a more healthier, happier Shanna. It is about finding balance in our busy life. Being a mom of 3 little kids, working , going to school. Life is so crazy. I want to feel in control.

Roni says:

Take Time For Yourself

I’m listing this one first as I think it the most important AND the hardest. Part of the problem most of us feel is that there is just NOT enough time. So how do justify taking even more of that precious resource just for ourselves. What we need to remember is that if we don’t take care of ourselves we won’t be able to take care of others. As they say "Put on your oxygen mask first!"

Action Items: Find time for yourself even if it’s just a few moments. Sit in a quiet room. Take a few deep breaths. Go for a walk with your iPod. Take advantage of the gym’s free daycare. Something. ANYTHING! But make sure it’s just for you.

SLEEP!

I’m so bad with this. And sometimes I think it’s in direct competition with the tip above. If I am going to take time for myself then somethings gotta give and that something is generally sleep. It seems to be the easiest thing to sacrifice. But at what cost? We (or maybe it’s just me) need to realize that sleeping is as important as eating healthy and staying active. It really completes that healthy trio.

Action Items: Make an effort to go to bed half an hour to an hour earlier then you normally do. Have kids? Nap if/when they nap.

Make a To Do List

Sometimes I feel like I just can’t remember things like I used to. There was a time in my early 20’s when I didn’t need a calender. I didn’t email myself reminders. I never wore a watch. Yet I was on time, finished my work, returned messages and accomplished what I was suppose to routinely. Now I wonder what happened to that efficient, productive women. Where did she go? Regardless if it’s age, distractions or just too many responsibilities, I have to come to terms that that women is gone. I must find away to be productive without her.

Action Items: Take a moment every night to jot done the tasks that need to be accomplished the next day. Keep a list of long term goals. Get a white board in the kitchen for family to do’s.

Accomplish Something Small and FINISH it

Nothing beats the power of momentum. I truly believe procrastination’s worse enemy is accomplishment. Once you accomplish a task, no matter how small, the ball starts rolling and it gets easier to start the next. The key is to start small and end big!

Action Items: Look at your list, chose something easy to accomplish and JUST DO IT! Even if it’s something as small as putting away clothes or returning an email. You’ll feel so much better when you do.

Ask for HELP!

*sigh* Confession time. I HATE asking for help. HATE IT! I don’t even like to accept it if it’s being offered. I can seriously be struggling with 50lbs of grocery bags and if someone offers a helping hand I turn it down. Not sure where this defect came from but I need to get over it. I have to remember there’s a difference between being independent and just being down right stubborn! There is nothing wrong with asking someone to give you a hand at whatever it is you need to accomplish. Sometimes I think we just don’t know how.

Action Items: Take a look at your list. What can you ask someone else to do for you? What tasks would be better to accomplish as a team?

Prioritize

Even though starting small builds a sense of momentum that can help you find balance, sometimes you need to skip the low priority items and head for the important ones. What’s important to you is going to be very unique based on your to do list and goals. Prioritizing your to-do can be an invaluable resource.

Action Items: Create a priority system. For example 1=low 3=high and assign numbers to the items on your to do list.

Recognize Your Accomplishments

Sometimes you may feel like you aren’t accomplishing anything but in actuality you ARE! I do this all the time. I feel off balance, stressed, out of sorts and then I sit down to write a post and realize all I have accomplished. Don’t get lost in your responsibilities without recognizing how much you are actually accomplishing. Sometimes you just need to BRAG!

Action Items: Take a look at all the item crossed off your to do list. Write out what you accomplished in a journal or blog. Have a conversation with a friend and talk about your day. You’ll may be surprised to hear yourself say aloud what you recently accomplished.

Remember.. The World Will NOT end.

I’m here to remind you (and myself) that the world will not end if the dishes don’t get washed. No one will die if the laundry stays in the dryer overnight. And take it from me, the emails will still be in your inbox tomorrow. We need to learn to Control It, Change It or simply LET IT GO!

Action Items: Let something go today. Prove to yourself the world won’t end.

Remove Distractions

Recently I tweeted "Roni has come to the sad conclusion that the only way to actually accomplish work is by disconnecting. *sigh*" It’s true, we live in a world full of distractions. Don’t blame it on the internet, this problem was around way before twitter. Sometimes we just have to learn to avoid them.

Action Items: Disconnect from the internet. Turn off the TV. Close your e mail window.

Be Grateful

Sometimes it’s not all about US. We may feel out of control or stressed but I think it’s important to note that we aren’t alone. Look around at those you love. Be thankful for what you have. When I’m feeling a bit stressed sometimes just looking at the toddler playing happily reminds me of what’s really important.

Action Items: Make a gratitude list. Take a moment every day to reflect on what you have in life. Thank your loved ones for just being them. :)

Just some photos

Chase's Science Fair Project-Lava Lamp

My little Superhero.

It's a New Day

As I sit and reflect on the past couple of months. I just haven't felt like myself. I think I have had the winter blues. The sun is shinning today and it feels so good. I hope this will give me the picker upper that I need to maybe get off my pregnant butt and do something worth while. I have been pretty much putting everything I possible can on the back burner. Now it is time to get something done and quit moping around eating everything in sight. I forgot how hard it is to be pregnant and work at a store that has a big variety of junk food.

We are having a Girl!!!

I had my ultrasound today and it is a girl. We are excited, especially Kelsey. She is so happy to have a sister. Now I think our family is complete.

I just had to add that I am a little worried how Cayden is taking all of this. If you say that Mommy has a baby in her tummy he says Cayden is the baby. He gets upset if you talk about it. During the ultrasound he kept trying to climb up on the chair and kiss me. And then yesterday I went shopping and bought some baby girl stuff. When I got home he immediately said that they were his and got mad when I hung them in the office were the baby's room is going to be. I had to move them in his closet. I don't know how much of everything he understands but it is sad to see him get upset. His is only 2 1/2 and to me his is still a baby.

My Little Entrepreneur

Chase is funny lately. He is so anxious to have his own business and earn money. He comes up with new ideas everyday what he wants to sell and what he wants to buy. Some of his ideas for his businesses are: hot dog stand, selling shirts and sweaters, selling drinks, selling his stuff he doesn't want anymore on ebay. He can't decide what he wants to save up for, video games, plasma tv, cell phone minutes, Jazz tickets. He has always wanted to be bigger. We have to tell him to just be happy to be a kid.

Weekend Fun

Yesterday we threw a baby shower for Kirsten my brother's wife. She is having her baby in a couple weeks. It was fun just to hang out with women. Afterwards me Amy and Launa and the kids went to McDonalds and let the kids play while we had girl talk. We were there for over 2 hours. It was fun. The cousins play so good together. We are lucky to have most of them close to the same age. Then we came home and played around with digital scrapbooking on our laptops.

I have had a bad migraine since Thursday and it doesn't seem to be wanting to go away. I think I am going to stay home today and just relax.